Dahlia's birthday was very low key! While I do think that one's birthday is a special day to celebrate, I also think that we go overboard with gifts and material items. So much so, that kids think that a birthday/or any other gift giving holiday is about just that....gifts! We have vowed not to do that with Dahlia. Unfortunately, with Deason we had started out on that path of overwhelming gift giving when he was little, but have reined it in and dwindled down on the quantity of gifts over the past few years. For some reason we have convinced ourselves that kids need multiple gifts????? When really one is more than enough.
We had recently watched a video from his 3rd birthday, and I cringed the whole time I was watching it. I had only invited a few friends and family, but it is amazing how many gifts that accumulates, especially for a 3 year old. I kept thrusting presents at him, insisting he open "just one more...just one more", when he wanted to be done after the first two. As it was he was overwhelmed with the two presents he got, he just wanted to play! Dahlia received a stuffed kitty from Deason, of which, he bought with his own money, and two new board books from Mom and Dad! She was happy as a clam in mud! Especially with the cupcake!